One day you will realize how much beauty you have inside you

One day you will realize how much beauty you have inside you; how much capacity and light and strength, and one day you will realize how many people you could make a difference in the lives of if you stopped comparing your life with someone else's and really truly embraced yourself and activated all you were made to be.


I'm so scared of losing you.

I never wanna see you in my future as a stranger. We've built so much together. I never wanna watch you walk by me as if we never met. It will literally kill me inside. I'm so scared of losing you. Although we've made promises, I'm just scared that those promises won't mean much in the future. I don't know where we're heading. I'm just worried. We started off as strangers, and I'm really hoping we don't end as strangers.


Sometimes there is sadness in our journey, but there is also lots of beauty.

You fall, you rise, you make mistakes, you live, you learn. You're human, not perfect. You've been hurt, but you're alive. Think of what a precious privilege it is to be alive to breathe, to think, to enjoy, and to be with people you love. Sometimes there is sadness in our journey, but there is also lots of beauty. We must keep putting one foot in front of the other even when we hurt, for we will never know what is waiting for us just around the bend.


My kind of relationship

My kind of relationship:
I love being in the type of relationship where you're totally comfortable around each other, and there's no pressure to act a certain way, there's no awkward moments, you can be weird and lazy when you're together, make fun of each other, tickle each other and then just laugh it off like you're best friends because you are. A relationship where you call each other nicknames and there is lots of laughing involved in the time you spend together, but you can also be serious. You can just be yourself with the comfort of knowing that's what the other person loves the most, that's true love.


I won't say I'll never hurt you.

I won't say I'll never hurt you. Chances are I will. I'll make mistakes. I'll break promises. I'll fight with you. I'll make you scream. I'll make you not want to be with me anymore. But even so, I will always learn from my mistakes. I'll never give up on us. I'll always apologize. I'll always love you. I'm not perfect. I never will be. But I also don't want to be dishonest and promise you things I can't keep. I'd rather show you my faults and try to make up for them.


If you ignore me, I won't wait around.

If you ignore me, I won't wait around. I won't bug you, I just won't talk to you, simple as that. Sure it's going to be hard, but it won't hurt as much as being ignored. I deserve better than that. I'll move on and find someone who actually cares about me because obviously, you don't. If you continually treat me like crap what reason do I have to stay?


At least respect me enough to tell me what's up.

At least respect me enough to tell me what's up. If you don't want to talk to me, just tell me. If I'm getting on your nerves, just let me know. If you're losing feelings, don't keep me waiting just to lead me on or play me. I at least deserve to know. So instead of keeping things to yourself, just be straight up and honest with me so I don't have to sit around looking stupid.


10 emotion quotes

No matter the situation, never let your emotions overpower your intelligence.

Learn to Master Your Emotions

You are, after all, what you think. Your emotions are the slaves to your thoughts, and you are the slave to your emotions. ~Elizabeth Gilbert

The reason we suffer from our emotion is not because of the emotion itself, but because of our resistance to that particular emotion. ~ Teal Swan

Don't make a permanent decision for your temporary emotion.

We might be the master of our own thoughts still we are the slaves of our own emotions.

Our emotions need to be as educated as our intellect. It is important to know how to feel, how to respond and how to let life in.-Jim Rohn

I don't want to be at the mercy of my emotions. I want to use them, to enjoy them, and to dominate them. ~Oscar Wilde

Emotional pain cannot kill you, but running from it can. Allow. Embrace. Let yourself feel. Let yourself heal. ~Vironika Tugaleva

You must be the master of your emotions if you wish to live in peace, for he who can control himself, becomes free. ~Leon Brown.


What’s done is done. What’s gone is gone.

What’s done is done. What’s gone is gone. One of life’s lessons is learning how to move on. It’s okay to look back and think of fond memories but never stop moving forward.


Detox your life in 4 easy steps

Detox your life in 4 easy steps: 
Get rid of anyone who: 
1. Lies to you. 
2. Disrespects you. 
3. Uses you. 
4. Puts you down.


True friends

People who can sense the sorrow behind your smile, the love behind your anger, and the meaning behind your silence are your true friends in life.


Detox your life

DETOX your life by clearing out fake friends, dead-end jobs, and players posing as life partners. 
— Thema Davis.


Make your parents proud, your enemies jealous, and yourself happy.


We all have an unsuspected reserve of strength inside that emerges when life puts us to the test.

We all have an unsuspected reserve of strength inside that emerges when life puts us to the test. ~Isabel Allende


Some men can be so toxic to your health.

Some men can be so toxic to your health. They don't want to love you properly but don't want to let go of you either. The more you give the less they appreciate, and the minute you've had enough and decide to walk away is when they are ready to love you and treat you right. So you give them a chance in hopes that they've changed only to realize it was all fake. You find the strength to walk away once more and here he comes proclaiming his love for you and you give in again. The cycle repeats itself until you gather up enough strength to say enough is enough and really cut him out of your life.


Time waits for no one

Don’t be so easily moved by things that do not benefit the well-being of your soul. Time waits for no one, and you’re going to wish you invested more of yourself into the things that sparked your heart.


She's not gonna be easy

She's not gonna be the easiest girl to love. You will probably gonna go through hell with her. Her insecurities are ridiculous. She has a lot of expectations. Her trust issues are too much. Her anger issues are scary. Her logic doesn't make any sense at times. She indecisive. Just to let you know right now, she's gonna cause a lot of problems, she's gonna get jealous often, and she's gonna over-analyze, over-exaggerate, and over-think every situation there is. There will be times you'll find her weird, there will be times you'll find her immature, and there will be times that she's so complicated. You will be annoyed. You will be frustrated, and you're gonna feel like giving up on her. But despite all of her flaws, she has such a big heart. If you can stick with her through all of the challenges she'll give you, then she'll make sure it's worth it.


To The Person I Used To Call Best Friend

We haven’t seen or spoken to each other for the longest time… In fact, we live almost completely separate lives now, except for where the outer parts of our social circles overlap. And though we may not hear from each other anymore – we do still hear about each other from time to time.
I often wonder what happens when you hear my name. Do you feel even one of the plethora of emotions I experience whenever somebody talks about you? Or is it just me because I was never able to let go? We may be distant enough that we don’t run into each other, but we’re not so far apart that we couldn’t reach out to one another if we really wanted to. But we don’t and that’s what says it all really isn’t it. We don’t contact each other… we stay right where we are, each within the confines of our own little circle never crossing that imaginary line. And the funny thing is that despite the fact we have different feelings towards the current situation, we both keep things the way that they are for the same reason: because you’re happy with your life the way it is. ~Ranata Suzuki

Hello, my old friend. Isn’t it weird how a year can change everything? In fact, it’s already been over a year since we cut each other off completely, and yet it feels like just yesterday we were sitting in your room talking and laughing. But, I’m not here to dwell on the past and who said what (you have no idea how many times I’ve heard ‘But wait, weren’t you guys best friends?’ in the past year), I’m here to tell you that I want to lay all of this to rest.

I’m well aware that what’s broken cannot be fixed, and I promise I’m not trying to put duct tape over a gaping hole. We had always believed BS would never come between us, but life happened and look at where we are now. It’s been a long year, and as much as I would like to say I’ve completely forgotten about you, I can’t. I can’t because there was a time when I proudly called you my best friend, and I could never wish harm upon someone who used to mean so much to me. Sometimes I find myself remembering some of the crazy and hilarious times we’ve had together, but those memories will remain in the past, a reflection of a chapter in my life that I do not and never have regretted.

It’s time I take all of the questions and hurt I've bottled up over the past year and leave them with the memories. I’ll never really know what caused the abrupt falling out we had, but as many say, there’s a reason people come and go in life. We’re two completely different people than who we were a year ago. I’m thankful for the role you had in my life, because without you I never would have found such amazing people and opportunities that I’m beyond grateful to have in my life now. Neither of us are perfect. I know following our falling out I said negative things out of hurt and anger and I know you said negative things because you were hurt too.

I’m tired of carrying around the memory of a broken friendship. I’m over the pettiness and late-night subtweets, and ’m beyond done with having to explain the details to curious acquaintances, so I’m leaving all of that in the past.

From now on, when people ask, we were just two people that had a falling out and went their separate ways. We shared good memories but we’ve moved on to new chapters in our lives.

I hope life is treating you well, and I wish you and your family nothing but success and good health. I’ll continue to pave the path for my future, and I hope you do too. Should you need me in the future, I’ll be right here. ~Laura Guerriero


In a relationship, when communication starts to fade, everything else follows.


10 Struggling relationship Quotes | How to Save A Relationship or Marriage

A simple talk can save millions of relationships in this world. Only if both sides will be open to make things right.

A relationship is like a house. When a lightbulb burns out you do not go and buy a new house, you fix the light bulb.

You can't save a relationship unless both people are equally invested. It takes a joint effort to make it work. One person trying will never be enough. ~Tony Gaskin

Communication to a relationship is like oxygen to life. Without dies.
The actual fix is usually just a matter of working with your partner to find the solutions and compromises that will allow you to work around the problem.

You can’t just give up on someone because the situation is not ideal. Great relationships are not great because they have no problems. They are great because both people care enough about the other person to find a way to make it work.

There's no challenge strong enough to destroy your marriage as long as you're both willing to fight for each other. ~Dave Willis

All relationships go through hell, real ones get through it.  

Don't ever stop dating your wife, and don't ever stop flirting with your husband.

Every relationship has its problems, but what makes it perfect is if you still want to be together when things go wrong.

How does it feel to have a long relationship? It must be like a roller coaster which you can feel from sad to happy or even emotionless when you have to realize that you are in a dot of boredom. How could a couple get bored with each other?  Losing feeling can be due to many reasons, but most of them appear because of lack of communication. One partner feels that they have their own lives and should accomplish their work. Another partner feels that they are not the priority anymore so they feel being ignored. Communication is the real key to long lasting relationship. How partner delivers the message, how partner maintain the communication are just the simple example to keep your relationship in a harmony. What should you do when it’s all done and that boredom does come, but you still think that you still need to keep your relationship?

·       Challenge yourself
When you think that you are not into your relationship but you still have the urge to go back to the good old days when you share love together with your partner, start the challenge. What is the challenge? Lack of communication can be two. The first is that you are busy, and the second is that you don’t care about your partner’s activity because you don’t like it. Remember when you said that you will accept and appreciate to anything your partner does with their lives. If you don’t like it, you may accompany your partner even you may find it bored, stay with it.

·        Reminisce the good things
Get angry often to your partner and keep pushing away from yourself out from your relationship? Wait, don’t get a rush and decide the worse thing. Reminisce all the good things that you have done with your partner. Recall your memories to your partner’s positive trait to you. The best thing to rekindle your relationship is to always remember happiness you used to share with your partner.

·        Feel free to ask
When it has come to worse boredom, ask your commitment and your partner’s commitment. Never be scared of something you don’t try. Feel free to ask what they want, what they want to do with this relationship and show your will that you still want to go together.

·        Give attention more than before
The best way to rekindle love is by giving more attention. Try to be honest to your care and attention and keep it until your partner feels that you are being serious to rebirth your relationship. You also need to enhance your communication because it is a form of giving best attentions too.

·        Discuss the better solution
Mutual feeling is important. Thus, when there is no mutual feeling, that’s dangerous. You have to discuss the better solution. So, you can get your relationship back in your heart. 

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I don't want you to save me. I want you to stand by my side as I save myself.


Sometimes in life, you find a special friend.

Sometimes in life, you find a special friend. Someone who changes your life just by being part of it. Someone who makes you laugh until you can't stop. Someone who makes you believe that there really is good in the world. Someone who convinces you that there really is an unlocked door just waiting for you to open it. This is forever friendship. When you're down and the world seems dark and empty, your forever friend lifts you up in spirit and makes that dark and empty world suddenly seem bright and full. Your forever friend gets you through the hard times, the sad times and the confused times. If you turn and walk away, your forever friend follows. If you lose your way, your forever friend guides you and cheers you on. Your forever friend holds your hand and tells you that everything is going to be okay. And if you find such a friend, you feel happy and complete because you need not worry. You have a forever friend and forever has no end.


Not happy, not sad but empty

Sometimes, I feel like ripping apart my skin and searching for a reason for why I feel this empty.
Maybe my veins are tangled, or something is lodged in my ribcage. Because it feels like something inside of me is missing or broken.

I feel myself changing, I don't even laugh the same anymore, I don't smile the same, or talk the same, I'm just so tired of everything.

Not happy, not sad but empty

I don't know what it's like to not have deep emotions, even when I feel nothing, I feel it completely. -A. R Asher

I guess I'm just a mess and maybe I'm just lonely or maybe just bitter but I know my heads a storm and that my chest is empty.

I can't describe what I'm feeling. I'm not happy, and I know that. But I'm also not exactly sad either. I'm just caught right in between all these emotions and I feel so empty.

You're afraid to tell people how you feel because it will destroy them, so you bury it deep inside yourself where it destroys you.

Sometimes we don't say what we feel, not because we don't want to, but because we don't know how.

It should be scary how numb I feel. How alone…in the cliche, ‘a room full of people’. The lying and pretending we have the perfect relationship is taking its toll. The destruction, the madness, the emptiness…it’s become my new normal. He doesn’t even see it. Doesn’t see me withdrawing, doesn’t hear my mind wandering, doesn’t feel my love turning into resentment.


Date someone who is a home and an adventure all at once.

Date someone who is interested in you. I don’t mean someone who thinks you’re cute or funny. I mean someone who wants to know every insignificant detail about you. Someone who wants to read every word you write. Someone who wants hear every note of your favorite song, and watch every scene of your favorite movie. Someone wants to find every scar upon your body, and learn where each one came from. Someone who wants to know your favorite brand of toothpaste, and which quotes resonate deep inside your bones when you hear them. There is a difference between attraction and interest. Find the person who wants to learn every aspect of who you are, and hold onto them.

Date someone who is a home and an adventure all at once.

The article below is written by Rania Naim via thoughtcatalog

Date someone who is looking for more than looks. Date someone who wants to know more about you as a person, as a human being, someone who wants to know your story, someone who is interested in deep conversations because there are so many people out there who will pretend to be all those things for a few dates before their true intentions come to light, because deep inside, they don’t care about your story, they’re only interested in theirs. They’re only interested in what they want now, they only want quantity.

Date someone who is not afraid of minor challenges. Someone who doesn’t run away even if they have other options. Someone who doesn’t keep you at the bottom of their list because of something you said or something you did. Date someone who wants you enough to try a little harder, someone who communicates instead of dodging the issue, someone who chooses to talk to you and understand your differences instead of giving up because it’s easier and because someone else might embody their idea of perfect.

Date someone who thinks you’re their idea of perfect with imperfections. Someone who sees your heart and how much it’s been through, someone who is also bruised but still believes in love. Someone who has been guarded but was waiting for someone like you to break down their walls. Date someone who wants to be patient with you. Someone who stays when you expect them to leave. Someone who doesn’t lead you on because they were genuine about you from the moment they saw you. Someone who doesn’t confuse you because they’re sure about you. 

Date someone who’s looking for quality because that’s the only way they’ll appreciate you, that’s the only way they’ll understand what you truly have to offer.Anyone else will only like you under certain conditions; like when you’re looking your best, or when you make a certain amount of money or when you dress in a certain way or speak in a certain manner. They’ll make you feel like you’re always lacking something or competing with all their admirers.

Date someone who’s looking for quality because they’ll always look for the things that other people don’t see in you, the things that matter and your inner beauty. Date someone who makes you feel beautiful when everyone else makes you feel invisible.


Eventually, you will meet a man who's tired of the games too

Eventually, you will meet a man who's tired of the games too…. and his loyalty will match yours.


Staying in a bad relationship is not poetic or beautiful.

Staying in a bad relationship is not poetic or beautiful. Staying with someone who hurts you or does not appreciate you is not romantic or beautiful.

What is beautiful is moving on and focusing on yourself. On loving who you are, regardless of
how other people see you. There is no flower brighter than the first to bloom after a harsh winter.


Mouthful of forevers

I am not the first person you loved. You are not the first person I looked at with a mouthful of forevers. We have both known loss like the sharp edges of a knife. We have both lived with lips more scar tissue than skin. Our love came unannounced in the middle of the night. Our love came when we’d given up on asking love to come. I think that has to be part of its miracle.

This is how we heal. I will kiss you like forgiveness. You will hold me like I hope. Our arms will bandage and we will press promises between us like flowers in a book. I will write sonnets to the salt of sweat on your skin. I will write novels to the scar of your nose. I will write a dictionary of all the words I have used trying to describe the way it feels to have finally, finally found you.

And I will not be afraid of your scars. I know sometimes it’s still hard to let me see you in all your cracked perfection, but please know: whether it’s the days you burn more brilliant than the sun or the nights you collapse into my lap your body broken into a thousand questions, you are the most beautiful thing I’ve ever seen. I will love you when you are a still day. I will love you when you are a hurricane.

Mouthful of Forevers by Clementine von Radics


All she really need is you.

She doesn't need expensive gifts. She doesn't need expensive dinners. I mean sure all of those things would be nice, but all she really needs is you. She needs your listening ear when she is ready to vent. She needs your shoulder to cry on when life gets hard on her. She needs your words of encouragement when she is getting ready to pursue her dreams. She needs to be able to feel safe around you, and know that you have her best interest when it comes to her heart. And if it's taking her a while to let you in, she isn't trying to punish you. She just doesn't want to repeat making the same mistakes she has made in the past by giving a man her all, just to find out that he couldn't match her effort. Love her genuinely. Love her patiently. Love her passionately. And last but not least, love her consistently and in return, she will love you like you have never been loved before.